60 Self Love Affirmations To Increase Your Confidence

My Happy Manifesting
5 min readOct 23, 2020
Self love affirmations are important in building your self confidence

Learn to create your own Self Love Affirmations and your confidence and self-esteem will skyrocket.

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We all need love. Our nature demands affection from others. However, even more importantly we require self love. And what better way to fuel this feeling than through self love affirmations.

Your road to happiness always starts (and ends!) with you. Before you start being pleased with the world around you, you have to be pleased with yourself. Before you spread happiness and joy to people around you, you must feel happy. And before you are able to give love to someone, you must first give love to yourself. This is why self love affirmations are so vital and so important in your life.

In this article I wanted to introduce you to the concept of these self love affirmations, why do you need them, how to create your own and I also wanted to dispel some misconceptions around them. I also have an article on Morning Affirmations to help you start your each day. And if you’re interested in topics like Manifesting, or Law of Attraction, feel free to check these as well.

“Self love affirmations are selfish”

Let’s get a few things out of the way first. Self love (and per extensions: self love affirmations) are often perceived as a sign of selfishness. I don’t agree with this direct implication. True, people who are selfish are often “in love with themselves”. However, what makes selfish people different, is that they focus only on themselves.

As I mentioned: love for yourself is one of the key components of being a better person. You start with loving yourself because you need it before you give love away. Not because this is your only goal. So, as long as you show love to others around you, there is no fear of being seen as selfish. You can fire away with your self love affirmations as much as you wish.

“Self love affirmations are shallow”

Another thing I see is people calling self love affirmations as vain and shallow. Again: they can be shallow if you make them that way. You need to remember that they are specifically about you, about who you are, about how unique you are and how different and varied your goals are. Now, the ones I list below: they work for me. Some of them will work for you, some won’t. It is your task to be inspired by these self love affirmations and to create your own that are in tune with your personality and life path.

60 Self love affirmations for you

  1. I love myself
  2. I deserve happiness
  3. I radiate positive energy
  4. My heart is filled with joy
  5. I embrace the love of the Universe
  6. I attract love into my life
  7. I am self compassionate to myself during challenging times
  8. I forgive myself for all my mistakes
  9. I celebrate my success
  10. I trust my abilities
  11. I repel negativity
  12. I always try my best
  13. Love flows to me and from inside of me
  14. I focus all the Energy around me
  15. I radiate confidence
  16. I am strong
  17. I follow my intuition
  18. I have a positive impact on others around me
  19. I set myself a clear life path
  20. I do not let negative feelings inside me

Self love affirmations need to be about you

This might sound like an obvious thing to say, however, it can’t be stressed enough. By now you have probably spotted that almost all these self love affirmations start with I. There is a reason for that: it sends a very strong message to the Universe. It serves as a beacon to carry the message across. Of course, sometimes “I” will not fit grammatically at the start, and that’s ok. What’s important is maintaining that personal focus.

  1. I embrace challenge
  2. I am creative
  3. I shape my life path how I please
  4. I am loved
  5. I bring happiness to everyone around me
  6. I am respected at my work
  7. I am proud of my accomplishments
  8. My mind is focused
  9. I have a clear purpose in life
  10. I am worthy of the blessings
  11. I am a better person every day
  12. I take good care of my body and my mind
  13. I carefully choose people to surround myself with
  14. I know myself, therefore I know how to better myself
  15. My heart deserves love and my body deserves pleasure
  16. I am thankful for all I have
  17. My body is healthy and strong
  18. My experience and skills are invaluable
  19. I deserve to be loved
  20. I use the Energy around me to my will

Self love affirmations should vary

If you want to get the best results and the highest positive Energy from your self love affirmations, make sure to mix general affirmations, such as “I am loved” with specific ones that target an area of your life, such as your work or a particular trait you have. Of course, it is perfectly fine to put emphasis on some areas more than others, if this helps you with your manifesting.

  1. My life is at a perfect balance right now
  2. I have a clear life path and I follow it
  3. I find happiness and happiness finds me
  4. I always chose the right path from endless opportunities
  5. My creations bring joy to everyone close to me
  6. My positive Energy I give out returns to me multiplied
  7. I am in perfect harmony with the Universe
  8. I draw joy and strength from good days and experience from bad days
  9. I have the strength to endure tough challenges
  10. I don’t allow doubt and fear to control my life
  11. I love my family and friends
  12. I am thankful for people who support me
  13. I am unique and this makes me strong
  14. My strengths outpower my limits
  15. I celebrate my life
  16. I share what I was blessed with
  17. I feel the support of the Universe each day
  18. I believe in myself
  19. I accept myself
  20. I am enough

Thank you for reading this article. Feel free to use these self love affirmations as a source of inspiration for your own passionate journey to boost your confidence, increase the positive vibrations and enhance this incredible aura that shines around you.

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Stay awesome.



My Happy Manifesting

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